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How it works

Today
My partner and I keep having the same fight. I ask for more help around the house, they say I'm criticizing them, and we both shut down.
That sounds draining for both of you. When you bring it up, what are you most hoping they'll understand: the task itself, or how alone you feel carrying it?
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Why it works

Conversation first

• Conversation avoids guesswork and surfaces hidden drivers.
• Neutral, mediator-style questions help see both perspectives (yours + theirs).

Research-backed scripts

• After you align on the root cause, AI gives specific next steps to try tonight.
• Suggestions grounded in communication and psychology research.

Continuity over time

• AI remembers past conversations so you don't need to repeat yourself.
• It connects patterns over time, so conversation can go deeper with context.

A safe space you can trust

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Expert reviewed

Conversation scenarios reviewed by psychology experts.

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Created by

Ex-Amazon AI Product Manager and active conflict mediator at San Francisco Community Board.

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